Is it just me who sometimes really cannot be bothered to deal with my partners out of control symptons?
I know his meds are not working, I know he's not working on anything much, he's unfocused, forgetful, vague, lying over stupid things, obsessed with a game on his phone, forgetting plans we have made, speaking to me like crap, off on another planet....
I know I should and can handle his symptoms better than I am at the moment. But you know what. I just can't be bothered. I will at some point have a conversation, but just for now I'm tired. I'm sick of his adhd. I know he doesn't get a holiday from having it, but he sure takes many holidays from managing it.
I know I can be a much better person but his behaviour lately has been incredibly hurtful and my walls are up for a little while until I finish licking my wounds.
Not all your job
Submitted by vabeachgal on
Dipity:
You are entitled to a break. If your mind and body are telling you that you need to take a step back, listen.
It's not all your job to manage his symptoms.
what V says - 100%. You are
Submitted by SpaceyStacey197... on
what V says - 100%. You are not responsible for his symptoms or his actions. Take care of yourself FOR yourself, and start letting him deal with his own crap.
V is soooo right here. You must take care of yourself or things will feel hopeless. Rescue yourself my friend!
Thank you both
Submitted by Dipity on
Sometimes we just need to hear its ok to look after our oen hearts. I know I can be a better me than I have been the past few days, and I will be patient and forgiving again. But sometimes, just sometimes being quiet and switching off from it is peaceful!!