Is it just me who sometimes really cannot be bothered to deal with my partners out of control symptons?
I know his meds are not working, I know he's not working on anything much, he's unfocused, forgetful, vague, lying over stupid things, obsessed with a game on his phone, forgetting plans we have made, speaking to me like crap, off on another planet....
I know I should and can handle his symptoms better than I am at the moment. But you know what. I just can't be bothered. I will at some point have a conversation, but just for now I'm tired. I'm sick of his adhd. I know he doesn't get a holiday from having it, but he sure takes many holidays from managing it.
I know I can be a much better person but his behaviour lately has been incredibly hurtful and my walls are up for a little while until I finish licking my wounds.
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Not all your job
Dipity:
You are entitled to a break. If your mind and body are telling you that you need to take a step back, listen.
It's not all your job to manage his symptoms.
what V says - 100%. You are
what V says - 100%. You are not responsible for his symptoms or his actions. Take care of yourself FOR yourself, and start letting him deal with his own crap.
V is soooo right here. You must take care of yourself or things will feel hopeless. Rescue yourself my friend!
*** rising from the ashes like a phoenix ***
Thank you both
Sometimes we just need to hear its ok to look after our oen hearts. I know I can be a better me than I have been the past few days, and I will be patient and forgiving again. But sometimes, just sometimes being quiet and switching off from it is peaceful!!