My husband ruined my birthday.I am such a great fool to think that my ADHD husband would love me till death do us part.WELL AREN'T WE ALL.Come on it was the coming week into my birthday, and I am not the type of woman who would say what I want cause I love being surprised, and by god name above I was.It was like most work week, a hard one because my sweet husband won't make things any easier for us with all the accusations and bad comments he always have.If I talk to any MALE person he's always mad, I must not have MALE friends associate myself with them not even on a work level.But he's a fool to think that I would ever do anything beyond crossing the line to hurt him,and if he really knew what love Is then he would know I would never cross any lines.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   The said week Into my birthday we had a big argument about me having MALE friends.I am devastated by this time I thought what! Is he mad or Is he sick.Sure enough some time after 2 months I found out he was diagnosed with ADHD as a kid, but too late all the damage was done.I know a woman of whom Is a street woman,I know her years and years,hell even my brother was in some thing with that woman,she is a call girl with no education so I would say she have no choice but to do what she do for a living at least that's what she thinks.My husband and myself was at a bar once having a small lime when suddenly Miss call girl appear from no where,and I told him who she was and what she does for a living,imagine she's even a local porn star at our city,gosh what have I done,tell me did I make a mistake by telling my husband,,, all happy with him at the time,having a great time,well,I MADE A HUGE MISTAKE.On the week of my birthday we had a split and the day of my birthday he called me so briefly wishing me a happy birthday,all well and good.But the man was so mad at me still for having communication with a male friend I know for 7 years now that he flipped out in rage and never even spoke to me with love,kindness NOTHING.I thought this was one of our regular fights where he would say SORRY or not even considering the fact that it was my BIRTHDAY!,,,,, I went by my dad and spent the day with him for my birthday since my husband was so mean to me I went to clear my head, and I left my phone in my car not thinking he would be trying to reach me and opps,,, I got (one) 1 miss call in the afternoon around 6:30pm.Okay so after i returned his call thinking YES he had a change of heart.No he was even meaner,now he thinks I was actually out with a man.STUPID! then seeing he lives just 10 min away I decided to surprise him,you know kiss and make up.I went in my car and upon arriving I saw him speeding down the streets in full gas i honk my horn but apparently he did not see me,so i continue and of course he got home before me and when I got there I got so excited because it's kiss and make up time,but instead of knocking on the door for him to open it since I never got a key,I decided to peak through the window,and guess what I saw,I saw the call girl the damn call girl taking off her clothes in the kitchen,I was in shock What the hell I just saw,well I became ADHD instantly and went crazy,,,,,,,,,,,, apparently he carried her there to make me angry knowing I would come home by him around the same time he took her there,,,, not knowing she would be undressing in the kitchen,,,,well that's what he said,yah right maybe he could be truthful or NOT! LIAR LIAR LIAR!!!!!! I HATE HIM BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD!!!!!!.