Overview
There's a lot to work through and think about when you are married to a partner with ADHD. These support groups for non-ADHD partners are given by Zoom and led by Melissa Orlov and other trusted, ADHD-savvy professionals. Each session focuses on one or two topics a week that are chosen by group members for in-depth exploration. Participants support each other, explore their biggest issues and most pressing problems, and get advice from the group leader - and from each other. Group leaders and other group participants will help you develop strategies for finding satisfaction and happiness. The objectives of the support group are to:
- have you be part of a community of people exploring similar issues
- learn from each other's successes and struggles
- find new, more effective ways to be your best self in your relationship
Logistics
The groups are run via Zoom video call and last one hour. The group itself, or the group leader, picks a topic for the day. The groups are limited to 10 participants - enough people to get a good conversation going, but not so many that you can't speak up. Sessions will not be recorded. Note that dates may change.
Dates
Fall 2026 Support Groups — Additional Groups Now Open
Due to strong demand, we’ve added additional Fall support groups with October and November start dates.
Our September groups are now full, but space is still available in select groups, including newly added groups starting later this fall.
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Groups Currently Open for Registration
Mondays at 2:30pm Eastern Time - Led by Rachel Ban
Starts October 19
Seven Mondays: Oct 19, 26, (skip), Nov 9, 16, (skip), 30, Dec 7, 14
Mondays at 8:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Ashley Paradise
Starts November 2
Seven Mondays: Nov 2, 9, 16, 23, 30, Dec 7, 14
Tuesdays at 7:45am Eastern Time - Led by Ashley Paradise
Starts November 3
Seven Tuesdays: Nov 3, 10, 17, 24, Dec 1, 8, 15
Tuesdays at 11:30am Eastern Time - Led by Rachel Ban
Starts October 27
Seven Tuesdays: Oct 27, Nov 3, 10, 17, (skip), Dec 1, 8, 15
Tuesdays at 6:15pm Eastern Time - Led by Ashley Paradise
Starts November 3
Seven Tuesdays: Nov 3, 10, 17, 24, Dec 1, 8, 15
Wednesdays at 5:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Andissyn (Tami Anderson)
Starts October 28
Seven Wednesdays: Oct 28, Nov 4, 11, 18, (skip), Dec 2, 9, 16
Wednesdays at 6:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Andissyn (Tami Anderson)
Starts October 21
Seven Wednesdays: Oct 21, 28, Nov 4, 11, 18, (skip), Dec 2, 9
LGBTQ+/Kink/CNM Focused Non-ADHD Partner Support Group:
Sundays at 7:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Amy Borla
Starts September 27
Seven Sundays: Sept 27, Oct 4, 11, 18, (skip), Nov 1, 8, 15
Full Groups — Join the Waitlist
If none of the available groups above work for your schedule, and you’re interested in joining an existing full group, add your name to the waitlist(s) below.
Sundays at 6:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Amy Borla - FULL - Join Waitlist
Sept 27, Oct 4, 11, 18, (skip), Nov 1, 8, 15
Mondays at 9:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Ashley Paradise - FULL - Join Waitlist
Sept 14, 21, 28, Oct 5, 12, 19, 26
Tuesdays at 11:30am Eastern Time - Led by Rachel Ban - FULL - Join Waitlist
Sept 8, 15, 22, 29, Oct 6, 13, 20
Tuesdays at 3:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Rachel Ban - FULL - Join Waitlist
Sept 8, 15, 22, 29, Oct 6, 13, 20
Wednesdays at 5:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Andissyn (Tami Anderson) - FULL - Join Waitlist
Sept 9, 16, 23, 30, Oct 7, 14, 21
Wednesdays at 6:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Andissyn (Tami Anderson) - FULL - Join Waitlist
Sept 2, 9, 16, 23, 30, Oct 7, 14
Wednesdays at *8:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Ashley Paradise - FULL - Join Waitlist
Sept 16, 23, 30, Oct 7, 14, 21, 28
*8pm ET is the new time for this group. Previous time was 9pm.
Thursdays at 2:00pm Eastern Time - Led by Lisa Magel - FULL - Join Waitlist
Sept 10, 17, 24, (skip 2 weeks), Oct 15, 22, 29, Nov 5
Please note that it will change from Eastern Daylight Time (EDT) to Eastern Standard Time (EST) on Sun, November 1, 2026.
The next groups will be in the winter, 2027.
- If you would like to be added to our notification list for future support groups, please contact us here.
- IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE NOTIFIED OF FUTURE SUPPORT GROUPS, PLEASE CONTACT US.
Faculty
Melissa Orlov is one of the most respected experts in how ADHD impacts relationships in the world, known for her practical, even-handed approach to how to overcome the struggles of ADHD-impacted relationships. She has been a marriage consultant since 2007 and is known for the quality of her seminars and support. For more information see the 'About' page.
Andissyn (Tami Anderson) has a wide-ranging background and many years experience as a couples therapist, including work with individuals and couples impacted by adult ADHD. Her compassion, and knowledge about healthy minds and bodies, make her a strong group moderator. You can read more about her at the 'About' page.
Rachel Ban is a couples therapist well versed in the issues that those impacted by ADHD face. She is a calm voice for those seeking to stabilize their lives. You will find her compassionate approach to your issues soothing. You can read more about her at the 'About' page.
Amy Borla brings her background in emotionally focused therapy and attachment issues to her groups as she helps participants explore the difficult emotions they experience and the behavioral patterns they pursue. She listens well and provides thoughtful feedback. You can read more about her at the ‘About’ page.
Lee Crespi is couples therapist who specializes in working with couples with ADHD. With over 40 years as a clinician in private practice, she has an abundance of expertise as well as a warm, compassionate approach. You can read more about her at the 'About' page.
Lisa Magel (she/her) is an ADHD Coach with an empathetic, strengths-based, and multi-disciplinary approach. She has an expansive toolkit that includes Relational Couples Coaching, Integrative Health Coaching, Parent Coaching, Mindfulness, Home Organizing, and Yoga practices. You can read more about her at the 'About' page.
Ashley Paradise is an experienced ADHD professional who has a talent for distilling disparate ideas so that others can learn - an excellent quality for a support group moderator. She is also is one of the senior consultants on the ADHD & Marriage team. You can read more about Ashley at the ‘About’ page.
Registration and refund policy
A 7-week session costs $259. Groups are limited to up to 10 people.
We will remove the registration button from the seminar page when the group is full. NOTE that if there is an over-enrollment in a specific group, we will try our best to put you in a different group.
Refund policy: Refunds are offered only until 1 week before the group begins.
NOTE: Please add all session dates (listed above) to your calendar.
Please note that it will change from Eastern Daylight Time (EDT) to Eastern Standard Time (EST) on Sun, November 1, 2026.
Register now for Fall 2026 groups:
Mondays at 2:30pm Eastern Time - Starts Oct 19 - Led by Rachel Ban
Mondays at 8:00pm Eastern Time - Starts Nov 2 - Led by Ashley Paradise
Tuesdays at 7:45am Eastern Time - Starts Nov 3 - Led by Ashley Paradise
Tuesdays at 11:30am Eastern Time - Starts Oct 27 - Led by Rachel Ban
Tuesdays at 6:15pm Eastern Time - Starts Nov 3 - Led by Ashley Paradise
Wednesdays at 5pm Eastern Time - Starts Oct 28 - Led by Andissyn (Tami Anderson)
Wednesdays at 6pm Eastern Time - Starts Oct 21 - Led by Andissyn (Tami Anderson)
LGBTQ+/Kink/CNM Focused Non-ADHD Partner Support Group:
Sundays at 7:00pm Eastern Time - Starts Sept 27 - Led by Amy Borla
IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE NOTIFIED OF FUTURE SUPPORT GROUPS, PLEASE CONTACT US.
Testimonials about Non-ADHD Support Groups
"It's been so valuable to hear everyone's perspective..."
"The group has helped me put words to what I have been walking through..."
"This group has been so supportive and validating. I've found the insight and ideas really helpful, and being heard is wonderful."
"The group gave me more hope, and the energy to continue the work I know I need to do to improve my marriage."
"It can be lonely living with an ADHD partner. This group has been an invaluable source of comfort."
"The non-ADHD partner support group helped me come back from the brink of divorce and reclaim a loving relationship. Being in conversation with Melissa and with other people navigating similar challenges helped me not only better understand my partner and how ADHD impacted our marriage, but more importantly, understand what I was doing to trigger our tensions and how I could let go of control and show up more powerfully in our marriage. I am sure I will continue to draw on the wisdom and insights from these groups for years to come."
"We were in a tough place...I couldn't wait until Thursday nights."
"Not feeling so crazy anymore!"
"A comfort. Thanks to everyone for the openness and validation!"
"It helps me do better with what I'm working on."
