March 16 - Live Seminar Starts

One of the most noticeable characteristics of adult ADHD is emotional dysregulation.  Adults with ADHD are prone to feel lots of emotions, more extremely and more quickly than people who don’t have ADHD.  Those emotions include anger, shame, overwhelm, irritability, and more.  This adds a lack of stability to their relationships both at home and at work.

When someone is in an extreme emotional state it’s called being flooded.  In a flooded state, the blood flow in the brain moves from the pre-frontal cortex (responsible for logical thinking) towards the more primitive parts of the brain responsible for ‘fight, flight or freeze.’  From a practical standpoint, this means that a person who is flooded is not likely to be able to listen or employ logical thinking – just when he or she might need it most.

The best way to deal with strong emotions is to develop a verbal or physical cue that the two of you can use immediately BEFORE the emotional escalation.  The response to the cue is to immediately stop talking, and to do what’s needed to calm one’s emotions.  Often this includes moving away from each other and coming back to the topic when you are both more calm.

Do you have a de-escalation technique in place in your relationship?  I cover a lot on this in my live seminar.

NEWS and EVENTS:

STARTING TODAY, MARCH 16, 2022 - LIVE ADHD EFFECT ON MARRIAGE Seminar 

ADHD WOMEN'S PALOOZA, MARCH 14-19, 2022 - MY PRESENTATION: Boundaries: the Key to Successful ADHD Relationships is on March 17th

Adult ADHD can have a huge impact on your relationship. Find great resources for couples impacted by ADHD including free: Online treatment overview; Downloadable chapters of my books; A community forum with other couples facing similar issues; A large number of blog posts on various topics; Referrals. ADHDmarriage.com can literally change your life! 

Resources

Is your relationship in trouble? Consider my highly acclaimed couples' course: ADHD Effect In-Depth Couples' Seminar - This 8-session phone seminar has helped many couples thrive in healthier, happier relationships. The next live session STARTS TODAY MARCH 16, 2022. Registration is now open.

Support Tele-groups - Be part of a community exploring similar issues, successes and struggles and find new, effective ways to be your best self in your relationship: Non ADHD Partner Support Tele-group and ADHD New Habit Coaching Group.

How to Optimize Treatment for Adult ADHD - go to the home page for a free download about the best ways to manage ADHD.

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