my partner is finally willing to take hold of his adhd instead of just looking at it as the thing he was torn down for his whole life. We're both embracing it.  sooo for his holiday gift I got him a Packers planner and wrote in my work, school, social and appointment schedule for him...all in pencil lol.  He will be released from prison next month and will need to write all his AA meetings and other appointments in.  He knows that I accept him and want to help.  I hope he doesn't take offense.  I'm thinking it will just show him  my love for him as the first person to try to understand every aspect of him.  I'm going to provide post its as well! lol