Leaving Things Undone

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“Besides the noble art of getting things done, there is the nobler art of leaving things undone.”

- Lin Yutang*

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I used to believe that everything had to be done, and done now.  That led to a lot of exhaustion, as well as conflict with my partner, who was (and still is) more relaxed than I am about these things.

After years of busting my chops, I realized that I was missing out on some of the pure fun of living.  For what?  A neater living room?  The perfectly matched bed linens?  Wearing makeup? 

It turns out that efficiency is only one way to measure success, and when it comes to relationships, not even a very good one.  Connection, laughter and shared experiences are much better.  I thank my husband and my children for teaching me this important lesson.

If you’re too focused on the noble art of getting things done, consider getting only your topmost priorities completed, and leaving the rest so you can hang out and have fun with those you love.

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