What was just said to me was just too good not to share.  My very-soon-to-be-ex who did something unprovoked and intentionally very hurtful tonight actually had the audacity to say to me after I got upset and was in a bad mood that I should be aware of how my being upset is MAKING HIM FEEL and that I should be ashamed of WHAT I AM DOING.  This stuff just CANNOT be made up.  At moments like these it sometimes hard to accept that this is really happening.  That someone is actually thinking and feeling such ridiculous things.  I just can't even believe it.  This can't possibly be my life.  This person can't possibly exist in reality.  Does it not even occur to him that he is the VERY CAUSE of the thing he is complaining about??  Nowhere in his brain does it occur to him that if he hadn't intentionally hurt me I wouldn't be upset and "bothering him"?  Oh and by being upset, I simply mean that I was sitting in another room by myself and silently crying.  I know we've already discussed that there is something terribly wrong with this man.  But, I mean, COME ON!