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ive been married for 20 years. we had a period of separation when she had to go work abroad. during that time i seem to have drifted away from her not just because of the distance but with little things as well. i got into a secret relationship and when my wife came back she seems to know that something is afoot. i lied when confronted about it and in turn put my secret relationship on the rocks to the point that i called it off. now i dont know what to do. i feel that i love and miss the girl in my secret relationship more than my wife. sometimes i cant even bear to be with my wife at all. help!!!
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Elaborate, pls?
Are you or your wife diagnosed with ADHD? Would you explain why you were originally attracted to your new girlfriend, and/or what created the distance in your primary relationship? Not judging; just want to know the context of your situation.