Hi--I'm looking for a psychiatrist in the San Diego.  The ADHD symptoms are threatening both career and marriage.  I'm looking for someone who is very familiar with adult ADHD and who recognizes that high educational achievements don't necessarily mean there isn't ADHD.  I don't particularly enjoy testing, so it would be a bonus to find a doctor who doesn't require it.  Does anybody have recommendations?  I'm also open to doctors outside of San Diego who are willing to consult with patients remotely.