Submitted by AG on 12/06/2024.
Is it normal just to come here mostly for the bad stuff, the negative feelings? My relationship has been pretty good the last couple weeks and I'm finding I don't write enough about this. I still come and check the forum but considering maybe I should also write in when things are good (boring, but more stable) ?
Does anyone else feel like this too?
Boring is Good
Submitted by J on
I'm feeling the same way. Boring is good, it's a sign that things are stable. Peaceful is a better alternative to saying boring for me.
Oh yes
Submitted by Swedish coast on
Oftentimes I think a relationship with loving intention will feel right no matter how much ADHD is in the mix. This is the reason we all try so hard to save our marriages, why we can't comprehend the thought of splitting the family.
I think it's important to remember this. And for many, of course the neutral and good times are what will sustain the marriage through harder times.
It's nice that you tell this part of your story too.
Counting our blessings is huge!
Submitted by c ur self on
Negativity is a diease, it creates bitterness...So yes, by all mean's rejoice over self awareness, and self discipline by both parties...We understand that many of our successes can be temporary...But, these moments are critical to hope and well being....They also teach where boundaries are needed when things breakdown...