Blogs & Tips

Insights and inspiration

What does it take for couples to move beyond ADHD and negative responses to ADHD? Our blogs help you find out. With a balanced, respectful approach, we provide the information, ideas and inspiration both partners need.

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Recent blog posts

  • Money is one of the biggest stressors in any relationship, and when ADHD is in the mix, financial decisions can feel even more overwhelming. One partner forgets to pay the electric bill—again. The other is frustrated that their budget plan never sticks. Impulse spending, missed due dates, and conflicting money habits can quickly spiral into resentment on both sides.

  • A simple concept can go a long way to helping you avoid impulsive choices that you might regret later.
  • For many people, one of the most painful parts of having ADHD is shame. It’s hard to avoid that feeling when you’ve just thrown away expired food that you forgot you had in the refrigerator, missed another important deadline or had yet another argument with your partner because they felt ignored while you were hyper-focused on something. 

  • About 60% of adults with ADHD experience chronic feelings of grief and sadness, making grief an important, but not often discussed, part of ADHD.  Further, how grief is processed and experienced can be different for those with ADHD for reasons that include emotional regulation, organizational and communication issues.  In this post, grief expert Dr. Becky Brotemarkle reviews what’s known about grief for those with ADHD and provides suggestions for successfully processing grief when you experience it.

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Books & Resources

Curated for usefulness

Our goal is to help you learn what you need to know to create the loving, healthy relationship you seek. In this section you’ll find the best books for various issues couples impacted by ADHD often face, as well as video interviews, articles and research.

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For Therapists

Training & more

This section is for counselors, therapists, social workers, coaches, and other professionals who currently work with adults and couples impacted by ADHD, or who would like training to help them improve their skills in this important therapeutic area.

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