Blogs & Tips

Insights and inspiration

What does it take for couples to move beyond ADHD and negative responses to ADHD? Our blogs help you find out. With a balanced, respectful approach, we provide the information, ideas and inspiration both partners need.

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Recent blog posts

  • When you think about what you think your partner 'should' do it's likely that you're assuming that you and your partner motivate in similar ways. But in ADHD-impacted relationships that's unlikely. Knowing how each of you activates your motivation is key to understanding how to get things done.
  • Do you need better self-care? Do you experience signs of spousal burnout? Partners of those struggling with ADHD have a higher risk than the average spouse to be struggling and exhausted. If that’s you, then try these 7 Pillars of Self-Care for non-ADHD partners.

  • Use Alphabet Date Night to infuse a sense of lightness and fun into selecting date options and get ADHD partners more involved.

  • Typical styles of communication may not be as effective when one of you has ADHD. Couples often say that conversations get derailed too easily, a conversation unexpectedly turns into an argument, or that neither partner ends the conversation feeling heard or understood. Here’s some strategies that may help you communicate in a more ADHD-friendly way:

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Books & Resources

Curated for usefulness

Our goal is to help you learn what you need to know to create the loving, healthy relationship you seek. In this section you’ll find the best books for various issues couples impacted by ADHD often face, as well as video interviews, articles and research.

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For Therapists

Training & more

This section is for counselors, therapists, social workers, coaches, and other professionals who currently work with adults and couples impacted by ADHD, or who would like training to help them improve their skills in this important therapeutic area.

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