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Husband with add wants to split

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weve been together for 16 years and we've had the rollercoaster ride many have. He's been diagnosed and medicated but little else has changed. We have 2 lovely children . Over the years I've been back and forth with understanding, tolerance, fear, anger, frustration. I've been supportive and understanding and have read as much as I can about ADHD and tried my utmost to be the best I can for us all. 

Desperately need some help / advice

Hi all,

my names stu. I bought the book for couples today and found out about this website. I could really do with some help from anyone who might be going through what I am going through right now.

Basically ive suspected ive had ADHD all my life, i was sort of diagnosed with it a few years ago. Im 39 now, I live in Liverpool in the UK and, sadly, my marriage has failed.

His Blinding anger is ruining us

Hi, my partner was diagnosed with ADHD and was on medication and seeking help before I met him. He changed jobs during our relationship and chose to come off the meds as he was no longer covered with private health insurance.

We now have terrible rows. He goes from 0-100 in the space of a few seconds. Then he is like a dog with a bone. He won’t stop ranting. It’s awful. He’s not very good at empathising either or reflecting. 

The reason I’m still here is because he is incredibly lovely. He has changed so much over our time together in a good way. 

Non-ADD Spouse coping help

I’ll just start by saying I’m in therapy and I have been.  My plan is to tell my therapist Thursday that  we need to start working on my anger/frustration/resentment exclusively for a while.

The reason for that is that my husband made a relatively minor forgetful omission, and we had words about it at the dinner table.   Our 3 year old said “Mommy punishing you, Daddy” which broke my heart. We don’t even punish our son so I’m not sure where he got that.  We usually try not to have discussion in front of him.

Done with his flooding

After almost 15 yrs of a rocky marriage and 2 kids (one of  whom has ADHD), I fear the flooding my husband experiences is going to end our marriage.  I’ve tried to tolerate it.  His defense is that it only happens once in a while so I shouldn’t hold that against him or carry it as baggage in our relationship.  But, I can’t.  I’m not built for this.  He is a wonderful man with a kind heart and all the morals and good values any wife would look for.  And when he’s not held hostage by his quick temper, he is helpful and fun and attentive.

NanoGlutathione

My husband has not been successful with any conventional ADHD medications. We have tried several alternative treatments and are still searching for solutions. 

I would encourage you to consider trying this over the counter supplement. My husband has been using it for about three weeks and has experienced some promising results. 

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