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Has anyone had success with couples therapy?  My ADHD spouse thinks the marriage is "not meeting his needs" and wants a divorce. He admits to having ADHD but he refuses to explore how it has impacted our relationship. He sees how it affects his work but does not see that it has changed the whole dynamic of our relationship.

hey all!

Iam new here, and i read some post's and i have to say.. is wow.. i almost cried and i smiled and this forum is a wonderful place and i really hope to have open-minded conversations with people who can relate.. or even advise! ^_^

first; let me point out right away.. We are NOT married, and we are BOTH females. It would be really great if any negative opinions be kept on the back burner. We both are twenty-five and are at different points (or viewpoints) in our lives..

My DH and I finally talked the other night.  He is not quite finished with the book, but he was at the end of his rope, so I thought I'd better go ahead before he really lost it.  He was open to the idea of seeking help/coaching/official evaluation and even spending the money necessary to do so.  I will try not  to give all the details of our conversation, but I think (as someone else here had warned me) that reading the book (his first on ADD) made him feel worse instead of better!  He started to understand that things may NEVER get better in the way he wants them to.

Hello, I'm new here and first off I have to say I love it! I already feel the support I have been needing.

This site has been a huge help for me so I have been trying to find something similar in Australia.

I have found support groups for those with ADD, parents and carers but nothing for spouses.

Is there anyone else here from Australia that can help?

My husband and I have been married for 10 short months. We are both in our early 30s. We had a whirlwind relationship and he decided after less than a year of dating that he had to marry me immediately, Prior to our marriage, I had frustrations with his behaviors and always wrote them off that he was "eccentric" and his frequent disconnections would be cleared up once we were married and living together. Only, in the last month have I realized that my husband has adult ADHD.

Let me apologize in advance if this is long, I'm really in need of some help.  My wife and I have been married for just over 16 years and have two kids:  14 year old son and 12 year old daughter.  We separated in October of 2010 and we knew there was no way our marriage was going to work, so we decided to call it quits.  My wife has been diagnosed with ADHD and has previously taken medication for it as well as received counseling.  The combination of the two helped tremendously and she was a completely different person.

Recently in a "moment of clarity" my husband of 6 years (who was diagnosed with ADHD about 3 years ago) has decided that our marriage is too difficult and that despite the fact that we got along before- we just don't "click". We've known each other since childhood, so this is difficult to accept.

My husband has the worst case of lose-itis I've ever run into. I'd like to know if any of you have found ways to treat this in yourselves, you spouses or your children.