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I don't know where to start.   I feel like the weight is crushing me.  No one knows, because I keep it all together - I feel like I have to hide everything and fix everything.  I'm scared to walk away - what if it is fixable, and I know that he does really love me....could I be making a huge mistake?  I know that it would devastate him (not a reason to stay, but again, guilty me). 

my boyfriend of a year has all of the qualities i mentioned above.

he also is very focused on me to a point it drives me crazy.

too much of anything is not good..

he is disorganized, messy, his finances in the past were

in total disarray too.

he starts things..doesnt finish them...even at times forgets

where he parks his car!

at night im ready to sleep..he is awake..and watching tv ..loud..

even though he seems tired..he seems sort of wired...or overtired?

I have only been with my ADHD boyfriend for a little over a year now. He has been diagnosed and prescribed medication ever since kindergarten, and to my knowledge his symptoms have not gotten any better with age, although neither have his methods for coping with the negative effects his ADHD has on his life.

So today was the first time I felt totally inadequate. I met the in-laws and went to church with them. I'm not religious and after not seeing him for a week I wAnted some alone time. But when we got back home. He jumped into a book even though he was only There to visit for a hour. Not even a thank you or anything. Even though he has school and only being at my place for an hour. I don't get why that hour was him stuck to the book and not me. After all he knows I'm not religious and hate churches after doing it for him I'd get atleast more appreciation. I'm not used to adhd.

I look in the mirror and what do I see, but 35 year old man who has ADHD Looking back things now it all makes sense As a kid I wasn't slow, stupid or dense School was something I always had to work hard at Listening to things that bored me while fidgeting this way and that I was charismatic and charming and had lots of friends I was crazy and funny willing to make you laugh till no end I guess I coped with this problem not knowing in me was this problem to deal with called ADHD As a young adult I hung out with crazy friends We did insane things that made us wonder how we lived in the end I rea

I'm a new kid here. I figured out that I have ADHD about 9 months ago. I have found a doctor, am on Adderall (little if any effect yet), started a support group for adults since there was only a parents group. I'm 60+ years old. So I have lived for 60+years with untreated ADHD and the H is significant.

I will try to be brief. My husband and I have been married for 10 fabulous years ( or so I thought). He is a strong, thoughtful, loving man, a wonderful husband and a great father to our two boys, 6 & 3. Which is why I was completely blown away when I discovered he had been having a sexual affair with my best friend and next door neighbor for 10 months. Yes, I sent him packing and we immediately started marriage counseling. Ou therapist diagnosed my husband with ADHD on their first visit together. It is just so hard for me to say that ADHD made him do it?

I am a woman who has been in a 3 year relationship with someone who is essentially unavailable to devote time to building our relationship because he has so many problems and his life is chaos.  We love each other, he is an incredibly attractive, sweet and big-hearted guy.  I looked into ADHD because as I described him to my therapist, she suggested that he may have ADD/ADHD.  He fits the bill according to my research. 

I am seeking support and hopefully beable to share some as well. My life is unmanageable in just about every area right now and I don't think the bottom can go much lower. Trying to take care of myself in the midst of losing our farm, and potentially our animals. Long story short at least for now is that with the farm up for sale needless to say the "expectations" that I know I shouldn't have knowing what I do about ADHD I am still struggling with and ready to rip my hair out.

My ex-husband and son are both ADD (no hyper component...inattentive). My son is in High School, and it it a requirement that seniors do a Graduation Project. They are supposed to start in Sophmore or Junior year and present the final project in spring of senior year. Well, you guessed it. It's spring of his Senior year, and he hasn't even started it yet, despite constant reminders, nagging, suggestions from me.