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My partner who is 62 has just been diagnosed as adhd, but he does control doing all the things around the house. Everything has to be tidy and if he sees a job that needs doing he has to just do it there and then. So they say he has a bit of OCD and also PTSD from his job in the security image. For a while I was convinced he was narcissitic as he put me thru years of emotional and psychological abuse but then an incident happened that made him see a psychologist and the diagnosise was made.

I've been married for 10 years to a 62 year old man who acts like he is 8 yrs. and helpless.

I run a business, support our household, pay all the bills, manage 2 rental properties, manage a vrbo property, clean the house, manage my employees, manage our bookkeeping efforts, my husband cares for our 2 dogs, that is it. They are not trained and they are both spoiled.  I'm getting angrier and angrier. I feel like I am going to explode. Yesterday was so bad I had heart palpitations and couldn't eat. I am at my wit's end. So here I am, to vent/complain.

I've been watching Dr. Amen videos and he is into brain scans.  Has anyone had one or had the subtype identified?  I'm trying to get my neice to get a scan. She has been on various medications and I'm not not even sure she is seeing an ADD specialist.  

I have been engaged to my amazing partner for 2 years now and he has always been honest about the anger that comes with his ADHD and I have tried to increase my knowledge by reading these forums and any information i can find regarding untreated ADHD in adults. finding this site has been a godsend because i was recently thinking i should leave him because i felt neglected, unloved and more often then not a parent to him.

I was recently broken up with by a man with ADD.

He lives in another country.

I met him online, (first time for that in my mid forties , as is he). We video skyped for two months and it was amazing, wonderful. He was everything. We had so much in common, i honestly thought i had found my souldmate.

So, i decided to fly to the US to meet him, and stayed in his house for a few weeks.

My now ex had a habit of venting every negative thing about me, real or exaggerated, to her online/ real life friends. She would use their backing her side to bolster her arguments with me and try to prove I'm 100% the problem. I told her that as her friend, they aren't going to call her out wen she is wrong. She disagreed and said that since they were her friends, they would be honest and tell her is she was being a jerk.

It's been 3 weeks since I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been hell for me because I still love him so much. I've been searching for answers every second. Finally when I read all the posts here about dating an ADHD man, all the questions are answered.

Hi, this is my first post so here goes. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and he has ADD. He's really insecure and has a few anger issues but they're pretty rare and only once has it been directed at me. But last night we went out with friends, got really drunk and jumped on the bus back to his house. As usual I fell asleep on the bus but this time when I woke up I was alone and about 45-50 minutes out of town. I called him like why am I alone in a strange town, where are you and he screams at me that he's at home, he's not responsible for me, its my fault and so on and on.

I am new to this so please be patient as I bungle my way through this question...... my husband and I have struggled for years.  Two months ago, he began using porn, registered for an extra marital affairs website and began taking a female co-worker out for a number of dinners.  He says there was never a physical affair and that he stopped just short of that.  We separated two months ago and he was recently diagnosed with ADHD (after 50+ years).

We have been talking a great deal and both of us are seeing our own therapists.

Hi, 

I am new to this site and just trying to understand why a relationship that was going really well became a disaster in just 8 months of marriage. I am not certain that my husband has ADD but it's something a friend of his with ADHD has mentioned (to him not me) and i was wondering if others had been through this? We are now separated - he has threatened suicide and divorce multiple times and developed  habit of leaving overnight that how now (possibly) become permanent.