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My husband was diagnosed with severe ADD by 2 Psychiatrists and 1 Clinical Psychologist. He refuses to take medication or go to therapy and said that his personality is such that if a therapist tells him to do something, he will do the opposite. We have two children in elementary school. I am so numb that I can't even cry any more. Crying used to help relieve some of the tension. I struggle with this daily. He is becoming more and more mean. He is using off limits accusations and words in front of our children if I even bring up the subject that he needs help.

My husband (who has ADHD) and I have been married for three years and lived together for 8 and a half. He began a medication regiment last fall after being diagnosed by a specialist a friend of mine referred me to. He did not fight me at all about it and has been very diligent about his medication schedule. He has never had a problem keeping a job, but he's felt that his quality of work has gone u substantially since being on the meds.

I'm 44, been on Methylphenidate and Buproprion for the past couple years, and have tried to make improvements, with varying degrees of success.  But, I still misremember things my wife says, or I even continue to forget conversations.  I made an impulsive decision last year to quit a job where I was miserable without having my new career ready to go.  Not long after that, my wife had a nervous breakdown and was hospitalized briefly.  My leaving my old job was a major factor in her breakdown.

Hi everyone,
I am a 44yr old husband and father of a 3-1/2 yr old little angel. 8 days ago my wife announced that she was done.

Several times over the last several years my wife has asked me to read The ADHD Effect on Marriage, and each time she asked me to read it, I did not read it.

Hi Everyone,

My husband and I have been together for 9 years, married for 6.  We have 2 amazing kids (6yr old son and 4yr old daughter). There was signs for ADHD before we were married - in hindsight it was obvious - but I didn't even know what it was.  We just made a great team.  I easily picked up the things he would drop the ball on - very naturally and he kept me from being so serious, it was like he helped to take the weight of the world off my shoulders.  I could see us working so well in a marriage.

I just wanted to post one last time (that is my goal) to say THANK YOU to this forum and website for helping me through the loss of my relationship.  Clicking on my user name will link to my old posts, but as a recap, I had been in a long distance relationship for over 3 years with a man who originally said he had ADHD, but then denied it when confronted.  I had no clue about ADHD, but I knew how unhappy I had become and how different our relationship was from the beginning stages.  So I started reading books on it and HOLY COW did it seem to describe him and us to a T!  The trouble was, he

I was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 35. I have hurt my wife emotionally by doing something that really hurt her emotionally and after counseling and her giving me a second chance and things started getting better I did it again. More counseling and things getting better again and then I do it again. I hate that I hurt her but don't understand why I keep doing the same cycle over again and again. I know my communication skills suck and I am not that good at expressing how I feel.

I've had a particularly difficult day today. ADHD BF is out of town for a work project. I woke up early to get a jump on my day and had NO INTERNET. Because BF didn't pay the bill and it is more than TWO months overdue. And because my entire business is online, I was screwed.

I had mentioned the overdue internet bill to BF several times in recent months and he repeatedly told me, "I'll take care of it" and "Don't worry." At one point in April, he told me that he had "Contacted them and worked out a plan."

Really? Seems like not so much.