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I'm new to this whole thing and my husband is not being treated. I dont think he thinks it's a problem but after my  counselor suggested he might have ADD which he had as a kid and he hates meds, but when researching ADD and marriage I'm like a lightbulb went off. The whole hyperfocus dating where I felt like a queen and now am soooooo lonely and so hopeless and just frickin overwhelmed. i have no idea where to start and I'm so over it. I know there's a person I loved somewhere in there but I'm tired and feel almost done. In addition to the ADD we also are dealing with a blended family.

I'm new here and finally got the courage to create an account and post.  I'm 33 and was diagnosed 3 years ago with ADHD-C.  I've been with my SO for 15 years now and this explained so many of our issues.  We have worked through a ton of our struggles but there is one struggle that I can't seem to get past.

Acceptance.  Acceptance of my limitations.  

I'm sharing this here not because I expect advice but because I know that many of you will understand my experience.  

"Next time you disagree, I encourage you to overtly seek the ‘and’ in your conversation."

I felt my body unclench itself reading your thoughts on this. Thanks

My husband of 30 years has ADHD. I was told by his family when we first met that he had ADHD when he was very young and it was controlled by Ritalin then he eventually grew out of it. Having no other knowledge of this type of wiring I believed everything his mother told me about it. I was given the impression that he was the only one in his family wired like this. Of course I was wrong about that. A couple years ago my husband and I went to counseling together, not for the ADHD but for the arguments that we would have about his family.

Previously, we have found evidence of our daughter not taking her medications, including pills lying around the house.  Today, my wife told me that she has not be taking them for months.  She usually puts it in her mouth, takes a drink, and shows up her empty mouth.  It seems she has somehow managed to avoid swallowing them.

My wife has ADD.  It went undiagnosed for most of her life.  After a web search I figured she had ADD and I told her to ask a therapist about it.  Of course she was immediately prescribed Adderall.  At first it wasn't so bad.  Some things got better, she would clean up a bit better and not sleep in so late, and I sure it helped her with work.  This was several years ago.  With the Adderall her drinking has gotten worse, she drinks 5 to 6 drinks a night.  She claims she needs to drink to sleep.  In addition, her doctor has put her on thyroid meds and she had a Hysterectony.  Her chemical bal

Hi All. I was diagnosed ADHD (inattention) last week including taking a Qb Check (scored 99 so that makes me well into the spectrum). But the specialist couldn't issue me with meds, only recommend some, saying i need to check with my 'cardiologist' first.

Three years ago I was treated for carotid artery dissection (I'm 60 years old), since when I've been on daily doses of statins, blood pressure tablets and aspirin. My heart is fine and so is blood pressure (122/59 yesterday).

DH had ADHD. He is on meds and really trying to work on himself. He works from home which makes it difficult for him to focus sometimes (working from an office is not up for discussion). Sometimes when I need his attention he will say things like "I need 5 minutes to focus on this first." I try to respect that and give him his space to focus on what he was working on before I came in. However, when a half hour goes by and I am still waiting, I get frustrated. If I try to remind him that I am waiting or go back into his office he gets angry and feels pressured.

Our 16-year-old son is convinced that he is going to be emancipated at the end of the summer so he can move to another state to live with people he knows from the internet and a few video game tournaments.  He says these people are starting college in the other state.  He has very unrealistic ideas about how much it will take to support himself and seems to believe that these other peopel will help support him.  He has been warned that he will have to repeat math if he misses that classes three more times this year.  He has a zero in it right now.  He says that all of school is useless and