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My husband does as if nothing is wrong next day,he was completely out of control last night and really upset and throwing accusations,tantrums,and today he would come and speak to me over the phone as if "nothing" happened.I am in the storm with lots off wind, but the roof has not gone as yet!I am feeling depress,and I need to address this to him or else he would always be this way,but,I can't because I have been educating myself on ADHD and that is not going to change him.Only the will power on his part to change and make change,and to address this ADHD on his own without me parenting him.

This is for all those in relationships in which the ADHD person does not want to try to do better and is angry and verbally attacks the non-ADHD for asking for some cooperation and consideration.  This is also for those who have ADHD to encourage you to keep up with your efforts and let your efforts be known to us so we can both appreciate each other.  Don't let a relationship go on for a lifetime of distraction, heart ache, denial and finally resentment.

For almost a year now my ADHD husband has become literally glued to me.  If I want to go out with a friend or even my mother I get a massive guilt trip or met with an angry response and typically I give in and simply don't go.  He wants to ride to work together everyday if possible.  If I decide to go to bed early to read or watch a show he immediately starts locking up and heads to bed with me.  If he is going to bed he locks up and turns things off under the assumption that I am going to bed as well.  If he has to work late and I am home alone for the evening (which is such a rare occasio

I am losing my ability to work,tooo much fighting with my husband, and it takes me to bed hurt and in tears and I worry, worry, worry, aaaaalot, and as a result in those fights are failure to accomplish my days work, I am over tired and mentally exhausted with all the fights and the things he told me the same night.I can't work today,, and many days had pass before, when I could not work before, because the tension and fights is affecting me, luckily I own the business.I am scared for what my future holds financially?He would not help me at all financially,,, and now I am losing the will an

My husband is a very defensive man all the time "every time"no matter the conversation...I am not at all in any position to allow the anger tantrums get to me at all these days with the ability to keep my emotions in tact,and, I did...I somehow managed to not let his ADHD effect, overcome me by simply talking out my issues to him and not flaring up the way he did "TONIGHT"he was "Speedy Gonzales",I never even got a chance to voice my opinion, his tantrums and anger is beyond imaginations,and thoughts.I have sooo much love for him,,, and failure on his part to acknowledge this is way pass hi

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I was not even aware that my husband was addicted to porn until I read "Melissa's book", and until I finally saw it with my own eyes.I was with and always is with my ADHD husband on weekends, by his apartment with him, and yesterday his cable bill came and I looked at it when he was asleep in the drawer where he keeps his bills,I saw that the cable bill is 5 hundred dollars more than the actual cost,and I was in shock!!!!