I know I have ADD, have been diagnosed with it, but more importantly have recognized the symptoms from early childhood. I have tried several medications over the years, but for various reasons haven't followed through on them.
Hi, My partner has ADD, we have 2 small children together. Things are bad, all the usual stuff really and now I'm at breaking point and feel like theres something screaming inside me "RUN!" But as I said we have 2 children and just "running" is not an option. A couple of weeks ago I ended our relationship but he literally wouldn't accept it.
It has finally come to an end. I had to get him to leave last night. It all started because I made the comment that I wished he would have turned the ice maker on when he had mixed himself a drink so that we would have ice now. And then he goes on to say that he doesn't know how to turn it on or off or if it is even on or off and I had to explain to him that if the green light is on, it's on and if it's off, it's off. Then he asked me why it was off and I had to explain that if you did not turn it off then the freezer would be overflowing with ice and that I would expect that anyone wo
My husband and step son (7yrs) have ADHD (not on medication). I have a son (8yrs) with anger problems and a one year old baby. I am a stay home mom and I am in working on my Bachelors. I am a very clean organized person, however my family is very messy and unorganized (I feel like a maid) My husband works 7 days a week, 12 hours a day. (late hours and weekends by choice) We are very much in debt to say the least. My husband has a big problem managing money. We have been together for 7 years, I am starting to feel like our marriage is turning into a mother son relationship.
Does anyone else deal with their spouse and their odd "requests"? Example: my ADD husband will insist that we not open the large garage door and use the side door instead. If one of us chooses to open the large garage door - he is instantly mad!
There are lots of frustrating things about my add husband but this one of late is driving me to madness. My husband can not keep his hands off my stuff. He says "if your crap wasn't such a mess I wouldn't have to touch it" Its not even a privacy thing; its sheer mayhem because I can't put my hands on things when I need them. ie: flash drive at 9:55pm when the printer ink runs out, collectible posters that were there 2 weeks ago, He loses his stuff a lot, is late, forgetful, blurts, interrupts and worst of all does not connect the dots!!
Okay, so 4 weeks ago (about) my husband tells me that he is miserable and if counseling doesn't work - he is leaving me. 2 weeks ago, he wants to sell our house and buy a new one together. He thinks that working from home rather than the office is a great idea - then he is reminded of when he did do that how unhappy he was to not have contact with others everyday.
My husband seems to take all things to the extreme. He was informed that forms of exercise help ADDer's - okay great. Yeah, not so much. He apparently believes that this is a ticket to exercise all of the time, without regard to anyone else. Normal people will exercise 4-5 times a week - fit it in during lunch breaks, before work, ect. Not him - he will get home from work (late) eat his reserved dinner plate and head out.
Why, why, why! HOW DARE YOU UNWRAP SOMETHING AND JUST LEAVE IT ON THE COUNTER!!!WHY - BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT THE OTHER PERSON ON THE HOUSE WHO CAN'T STAND IT WILL CLEAN UP AFTER YOU INSTEAD OF GO AFTER YOU AND "NAG" AND "REMIND" BECAUSE IT IS POINTLESS????
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