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So here's the deal--I have posted here before.  My DH of 15 years has ADD, both my sons are ADHD as well.  I am so overwhelmed and exhausted it's just not funny.  I have no time for anything, let alone time for myself.  Tomorrow night we are supposed to go to the Bon Jovi concert here in Chicago and I just emailed DH to find someone else to go because I am just not even remotely interested any more.  This week I have slept on the couch twice because of DH's snoring and restless leg syndrome, taken the kids to a water park for two days( hubby didn't come), scheduled a surgery for my younge

I found this site via the NY Times article.  I am the person with the ADD.  I struggle with it, and have had some small help from Adderall, but now I'm taking a drug holiday.  Clutter sickens and paralyzes me.  I've hired an organizer to help me clean up the mess, but recently I had an unexpected catastrophe and lost half my income, so I can't afford much help any more.  I know that I need structure in my environment, by which I mean places to go and things to do which punctuate my time.  But I'm having a lot of trouble finding that structure.

Here is my concen which just came up while reading other comments.

How can we as a parent with kids who have ADD help them for not turning out what is this blog doing when they grow and get marry?

What can we do to help our young children to fit into this speed world and have a loving wife or husband while working on their ADD for rest of their live.

Medication

It has recently come to my attention that under the Americans with Disabilities Act, ADD/ADHD is considered a 'disability'. I don't work outside the home and in fact rarely leave the house. I find the task of applying for disability overwhelming. Has anyone had success with applying and getting disability with ADD? Can you give me some tips? I very much want to move forward with this, but not sure how to go about it. Thank you.

Hello - I am new to this forum and am glad to have found it.

I am an adult female with ADD. I was diagnosed as an adult and have tried most of the popular ADD/ADHD medications that have been on the market for the past 10 -12 years. I am currently on generic Ritalin (Methylphenidate) with limited success. My Dr has suggested I consider trying Focalin or Vyvanse. I do not have a prescription plan so I pay for these out of pocket and I understand they are very expensive $150- $200 per month. I currently pay about $60 for generic Ritalin.

There are a lot of posts on this site about fixing specific problems, like division of housework and chores.  As a non-ADD spouse, I completely agree that these solutions are necessary to create the absolutely necessary relief in the frustrating cycle caused by ADD.  But once you start to get past these little things, I'm wondering what a long-term life with someone with ADD means.

(disclaimer, i type really fast causing a lot of typos sometimes lol. i am also a bit upset right now so my writing may be erratic to put it lightly)

My husband was diagnosed with ADD and depression (i disagreed with the second)

I was diagnosed with ADD and social anxiety disorder

soo we both have it...

Seriously, look at the topics under the "Joy in Marriages" forum.

• "Please help"
• "Please help"
• "It's torture"
• "My husband has fallen out of love"
• "Wife has left"
• "May cancel wedding"
• "Extremely frustrating"
• "Need help"
• "On the brink of giving up"
• "I don't know what to do"
• "Disconnect in marriage"

Yes, "Disconnect in marriage." In the "Joy in Marriages" forum.