I have ADD. My partner has Borderline Personality Disorder
I found this site via the NY Times article. I am the person with the ADD. I struggle with it, and have had some small help from Adderall, but now I'm taking a drug holiday. Clutter sickens and paralyzes me. I've hired an organizer to help me clean up the mess, but recently I had an unexpected catastrophe and lost half my income, so I can't afford much help any more. I know that I need structure in my environment, by which I mean places to go and things to do which punctuate my time. But I'm having a lot of trouble finding that structure.