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My husband ruined my birthday.I am such a great fool to think that my ADHD husband would love me till death do us part.WELL AREN'T WE ALL.Come on it was the coming week into my birthday, and I am not the type of woman who would say what I want cause I love being surprised, and by god name above I was.It was like most work week, a hard one because my sweet husband won't make things any easier for us with all the accusations and bad comments he always have.If I talk to any MALE person he's always mad, I must not have MALE friends associate myself with them not even on a work level.But he's a

Not sure where I am right now. I love my husband, who was diagnosed with ADHD (takes medication) a few years ago, but I am so tired and frustrated and I find myself angry much more frequently than is healthy. I know it is affecting my children and my ability to parent and be a healthy, happy person. It would really help just to know that there were others out there who have experienced these things, and to know how they dealt with it. We have 2 young children. We live without family close by. We both work, although my job is more demanding and time consuming.

My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half, we have a 4month old daughter and while I knew my husband was adhd when we got married his true 'teenage ways' did not roar their ugly head until i found out i was pregnant (and this was a surprise since my husband told me he couldnt have kids.. and that is another story in itself as he lies to get what he wants frequently)

my nag list as i like to call it because i HATE nagging but thats all i feel i do anymore.

You'll have to forgive me if someone else has posted about this, I however am new and desperate. I have noticed reoccurring problems with my wife and I. She has worked so hard to fix them on her end, and I kept feeling as though she was doing nothing. It kept happening over and over again, and I kept nagging. Then I finally realized the problem is not with her, it's me.

I have been married for 3 years and I love my wife lot  but  My wife height 6.5
And weight 220 lbs While I height 5.6 and weight 120 lbs

I am unfortunately unable to lift and carry my wife and I feel embarrassed sometimes when I'm in the market or a restaurant or nightclub
I feel ridiculous and strange stares from people has become my mental ill

My relationship with my ADHD husband is very hard..we love each other very much but I don't think I could carry on for to much longer. It's getting very hard,he is very weird at times, I cannot seem to keep him under control with this terrible disorder.He knows he's not well, and now it's becoming a joke for him when we both know it's a serious matter and if we don't take that into serious consideration, we would lose each other.I don't want to lose him to some DISORDER!

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I'm sorry for wasting time ._.

Is it typical for people with ADD to not accept responsibility for what they have done? Is it typical for them to not see the toll it is taking on their loved ones?  

Can anyone relate to this?  I feel as though I am living with Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde!!  Younger folks might know what that term means, and of course, if you know the story, I am being a bit extreme since my ADHD husband is not a homicidal maniac as was Mr. Hyde.  But my point is that it is like I wake up to a different person every morning.  One morning he will be mild mannered and sweet and the next morning, or sometimes by the afternoon he is sullen, angry and hostile.