Always Having to Initiate, Except when It Comes to Sex
I am wondering if other nonADHD spouses experience what I do in terms of having to be the one to always initiate things?
We don't get out of bed unless I say "Are you ready to get up?"
We don't eat unless I say "Are you hungry?"
We don't go out unless I say "Are you ready to go?"
We don't make plans unless I say "Do you want to get together with so and so this weekend?"
We don't go out together unless I say "Do you want to go for a walk?" or "Do you want to go to a museum tomorrow?"