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I used to post here when I was married to an ADD man. We are thankfully divorced. He still drives me crazy sometimes because we co-parent, but I am getting used to it.

Ideas please on Explosive Belligerent Temper tantrums...

So I just got a phone call from my son's doctor.  He had an appointment this evening that we missed. Why, you may ask, did we miss it??  Because DH made the appointment and did not tell me, did not put it on the google family calendar OR on the white board calendar on the kitchen wall so literally NO ONE knew about it but him and HE is out of town.  Now, is it the end of the world?  No.  But for gods sake--we have tools to use WHY WON'T HE USE THEM.  The google calendar--what could be easier???  It is accessible by phone and laptop AND tablet.

I am in the midst of a bitter divorce after 7 1/2 years of marriage.  We have two young boys, 6 and 7 years old.  My estranged wife has a "severe case" of ADD (per her psychiatrist).  She filed in August of 2015, and two weeks later had me served with a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) at my office on a Tuesday afternoon that prevented me from going home.  I haven't been home since.  There has never been any domestic violence, but verbal arguments became common in the months before she filed.

Hi - I've been incredibly stressed to the point that I have hives and my hair is falling out.

My husband has always had some really odd behaviors (as does his mom).  

I read something the other day that I found troubling.  What I read suggested that ADHD hyper-focus can make a person confuse the kind of euphoria associated with an illicit, drug-induced high with genuine feelings of love for another person at the beginning of a relationship.

The context in which I read this made me think this would be undesirable for that to happen if an ADHD person ended up with the "wrong person," as in, someone who maybe is abusive, an ex-con, or a serial cheater...situations representing real sources of relationship incompatibility.

I shall take a day to step out of the 'Wife" box and tell you about a man with ADHD and what kind of Dad he is, what he did, and what he did not do

My husband (adhd) has withheld loving, gentle, and affectionate demonstrations of emotions because he says he has a very IQ, and he isn't into "those" emotions. So, having a high IQ means you can't show someone how much you love them? That Doesn't make sense. I believe he has CHOSEN to do this.